Preparing for a Long Winter Drive to the Hospital: ♥️ From Your Homesteading Doula

Hey mama,

If you’re expecting during the winter months and planning a hospital birth, you’ve probably thought a lot about your birth plan, your doula, and your little one’s arrival. But there’s one often-overlooked piece of the puzzle: the journey to the hospital.

For us homesteading mamas, the idea of a long winter drive—especially if you're living in a more rural area—can stir up some worries. Roads can be icy, snow can fall unexpectedly, and weather can turn on a dime. So, while the cozy warmth of your home and the excitement of meeting your baby might be on your mind, it’s important to prepare for a smooth, safe drive in winter conditions.

Here’s my practical, homesteading doula advice for preparing for that winter drive to the hospital—because being prepared isn’t just about having the right gear; it’s about feeling calm and confident when the time comes.

1. Keep Your Vehicle in Top Shape

Before your big day arrives, make sure your car is in good condition. The last thing you want is to be stuck on the side of the road with labor pains in the middle of a snowstorm. If you’re driving through snow and ice, you need to be sure your car is ready for whatever winter throws at it.

Check these things:

• Tires: If you haven’t already, get a good set of winter tires on your vehicle. They’ll give you the grip you need in slippery conditions.

• Battery: Cold temperatures can drain a car battery faster than you’d expect. Have it checked to make sure it’s strong.

• Windshield wipers: Make sure your wipers are in good condition and that you’ve got a full tank of windshield wiper fluid (the kind that doesn’t freeze in low temps).

• Fluids: Ensure your oil, antifreeze, and brake fluids are topped off and ready to handle the cold weather.

Tip: I also recommend carrying a small snow shovel in your car. If you get stuck, you’ll have a tool to help dig yourself out—especially if you’re in a rural area where help might not come immediately.

2. Pack Your Labor Bag for the Ride

You know the importance of having a well-packed hospital bag, but there are a few extra items to consider for the long winter drive. It’s all about comfort, warmth, and readiness for the unknown.

Essentials to pack for the drive:

• Warm blankets: Even if it’s just a 30-minute drive, you’ll appreciate being cozy and warm, especially during the winter months.

• Snacks and water: You never know when you’ll be on the road, and having some comfort snacks (like granola bars, dried fruit, or crackers) will keep your energy up.

Pack an extra set of clothes for your partner or birth support person. If you’re driving through messy weather, they’ll want something warm and dry for the ride back home!

3. Know the Signs of Labor (and When to Go)

As much as you’re preparing for that long drive, you also want to be sure you don’t leave too early—or too late! Knowing the signs of early labor can help you decide when to head out.

If this is your first baby, it’s usually a good idea to wait until contractions are about 5-7 minutes apart and lasting for at least 60 seconds. But if you’re further along or if your doctor/doula has advised a different timeline, follow that. Don’t second-guess yourself—if you feel that “gut feeling” that it’s time to go, trust it.

Also, if you’re having any pre-labor signs like your water breaking, make sure you’re in contact with your birthing team, so they can help you navigate the decision to head out.

Tip: If your labor is moving quickly or you live in a remote area, let your birthing team know as soon as possible. If there’s a chance you won’t make it to the hospital, they may have other plans in place, including a nearby clinic or even the option to deliver at home with assistance.

Mamas, you’re strong, resilient, and capable of handling whatever the winter roads throw your way. With a little preparation and some peace of mind, you can focus on what really matters—getting to your birthing place safely and with as little stress as possible. The journey may not be easy, but the destination is worth every moment of the ride.

Stay warm, stay safe, and know that your little one will soon be in your arms, and all of this will just be a memory!

Sending you warmth and peace on your journey to motherhood. ♥️